Grow Old Along With Me

I love that song! (Of course, I loved the poem by Robert Browning, first.)

John Lennon wrote a song version, and then Mary Chapin Carpenter followed with a beautifully lilting “cover” of John’s recording.

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“Ok Crystal, fair enough.

But, what are ya getting at”?

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Bless you, Kids. I know I don’t make it easy. 😉

There’s been a lot going on behind the scenes, here.

We’ve been caught up in meetings, buried in literature, and immersed in the filing of countless forms.

In just a few weeks, Sir Beads is going to retire.

He would tell you that although he has been blessed to work for a wonderful company . . . after 4+ decades – he’s more than ready to leave the everyday stress behind.

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We are happy!!!

We are nervous.

We are excited!!!!

And with the current economy – maybe a little scared!

The whole procedure has very much reminded me of the arduous process of college applications – which we went through several years ago with our girls.

Suddenly we have so many new decisions, lots of choices to make, so much red tape! Who knew?

We ARE making progress, though. Yes, indeed!

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For example, I can now go on for hours about the pros and cons of annuities, the details concerning rollovers, and the differences between Medicare A, B, C, D, Medigap, and Supplement plans . . . whereas a few weeks ago it was pretty much a foreign language. (Fear not, Kids! I have no intention of getting into any of that here.) 😉

The one thing I have no worries about is having more time with Sir Beads. I am actually thrilled about that. Oh, I know there’s been a study that wives in Japan literally become ill when their husbands retire. And I’ve heard stories of women who struggle to maintain their usual schedules with the sudden appearance of husbands who continually want attention, and conversation, and (gasp!) 3-meals-a-day!

Sir Beads and I were married for a few years before our kids arrived so we know the drill. During those pre-kids years, we had a chance to become good “friends”. From the beginning, we learned to compromise and accommodate, how to have fun together and still give each other a little space. We’re feeling confident those lessons will serve us well now.

There won’t be a dull moment. Of that we’re pretty certain!

Grow old along with me;
The best is yet to be
. . .
😀

Hugs,

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Grow Old Along With Me — 6 Comments

  1. Congratulations to Sir Beads, I hope he likes retirement as much as my dad and uncle do. Those two bought a boat together so they could go fishing a couple of times a week and my dad bowls 3 days a week also. I’m sure you and Sir Beads will have all kinds of new adventures that you can write about.

    Happy June 1st everyone. I’m not real sure where May went, but ready or not here it comes.
    6/1 Dare Day (dare yourself to do something different)
    6/1 Say Something Nice Day ( I like this and I’m going to do it more than once today)
    6/1 National Go Barefoot Day
    6/1 National Hazelnut Cake Day

  2. Congratulations! It’s a wonderful place to be. I once asked an elderly couple what were the best years of their married life. They both said ‘now’ . Which is fantastic. It means there’s always something to look forward to.

  3. OMGosh, we are looking at this too. Terry is 64 and we are hoping for him to retire at 66, but that leaves me a few more years until I can draw on social security and when HE retires, there goes my medical insurance so ….who knows what we will do.

    We can only be together all day for about 2 weeks before he drives me nuts. And we’ll have to get rid of his computer because he is addicted to Spider Solitaire and would spend all day in that chair at the computer.

    But, his health is not that great so I am voting for him to retire as soon as he can and I’ll keep going until I get too jealous because he is home and I am not!

    Congratulations to you both. Seriously…I look forward to retiring with Terry and I know you to are going to have great fun together and somehow I don’t think you are limiting your selves to sitting in front of the boob toob. What ain’t you tellin us yet?
    xx, Carol

  4. Congrats on Sir Beads retirement. 40+ years is long enough!! Time to smell the roses!!

    If he takes up a hobby, you won’t even know he’s afoot. OR a part time job like my hubby did. (We are both retired. And loving it!!)

  5. Oh how exciting! I know my husband is looking forward to retiring, he would retire tomorrow if he could! 🙂 But he is not yet 40 and we have a new baby so that is not in the cards for a long time. LOL
    Although I do love spending time with him—he works mostly from home and I work part time so we end up seeing quite a bit of each other.
    When my dad retired, he bought a cattle ranch; now he works more than he did before! He loves it though and it keeps him out of my mom’s hair. (mostly)
    I know you will enjoy having him around and you will have fun adventures, I’m sure!

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